Discerning Direction
January 12, 2010 | Books, Knowing Christ, Living Free, Proverbs 31 Ministries
If you are joining me from Encouragement for Today’s devo, I’m so glad you did. Maybe you dropped by today because you are stuck right in the middle of a crossroads — unsure of where to go, or what direction or move is the right one.
I’ve created a devo for you to print out called Discerning Direction. It takes you right to a crossroads I had to cross, and offers six questions to help you know if you are making a good decision. Download it, share it with friends, take it to your Bible study group, or just have a one-on-one with God as you go through it.
Discerning Direction (click to download)
I hope you will consider leaving a comment so I can pray with you today. I promise that I’ll pray over each person and each crossroads. Do I have the answers you need? No, but I know Who does.
I’ll also send an autographed copy of my book, Making It Real: Whose Faith Is It Anyway, to one of you that leave a comment.
Be sure to leave your email address (I’m the only one who will see it) so that I can contact the winner!
Blessings,
Suz
PS: It’s 12:47 p.m. and after reading many of the comments, I want to take this deeper. Is that okay with you?
For the next few days we’ll address some of the issues you brought up. What does Scripture have to say about it? How do you live it out the next day? Are there tangible changes or choices that can be made? What do you do when there doesn’t seem to be?
I hope you’ll come back tomorrow through Friday. We’ll dig deeper together, okay friends?
Suzie
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Hi Suz,
January 12th, 2010 at 5:45 amThanks for that download, I am hoping it will help me. I am definitely at a crossroads. The first question is my decision in line with God already stumps me. I have no idea what it is that I want to do, let alone which direction I should take.
I dont want to stagnate at the crossroads, but want to move om and be in a closer walk.
Your encouragement means a lot to me.
(My situation – sold my pharmacy a year ago, now finding it difficult to find part time work.two adult childre 26 and 27 who dont like each other still living at home. Doing lots of bible study,trying for direction and guidance and revelation)
Thanks again for your prayers Susanx
Thanks for your devotion and download!
Will be study on it!
My life recently has been turned up-side-down!
Getting over a lot, clearing up a lot in my life at the moment.
Some people told me (separately) they thought that this was Gods way to prepare me for another task.
So I am searching Gods will on this.
Of course I have my own dreams, but try to put them aside and let God guide.
Would be thankful for your prayers,
Blessings form Holland!
January 12th, 2010 at 6:01 amHi,
Thanks for the encouragement! I’m not sure if it; is a cross road or just giving over like you at the farm. I’m incapable of digging myself out. However, I’m also resolved to His direction in my life. I have no idea what it is or where!
All I know is that He works ALL things out for good for those who are called according…
Thank you for your prayers, they are cherished!!!
January 12th, 2010 at 7:08 amK.
Hi Suzie,
I am very greatful for the download. I will study it and allow God to lead me in the direction that He desires for me. He brought me to it and He will take me in the right direction.
Thank you in advance for praying me through this crossroad. I pray God’s blessing and continued guidance in your ministries. Continue to remain focus, your ministry is powerfully impacting lives.
January 12th, 2010 at 7:13 amGod’s Blessings upon you and your family.
God always knows just what to place in our lives when we need it most. Thank you for allowing God to use you.
I am definitly at a crossroads. I partnered with someone to open a practice about 6 months ago and it has not been going well due to the economy.
I prayed that God would show me what to do and the time has come, my crossroad. Do I close the practice? Do I continue and risk losing out on other oppurtunities that God is placing in my life?
I purposed in my heart that this year I would study God’s word and build my relationship with him daily. I have been faithful thus far. Please pray that I will trust his leading in my life.
Thank you for praying for me.
January 12th, 2010 at 7:27 amI found the Proverbs 31 website just a couple weeks ago. I’ve been doing a daily devotion time every morning for about a year now and it has been my strength, my saving grace! I’ve done several studies at my church as well. And, learning, digging, understanding small bits, of God Word has been complete joy! I know I’ve been standing at a crossroads for a long, long time. Too afraid to even consider what God would want me to do with my life! The questions in the devotion will be a huge step for me to answer. I am finely able to start looking ahead, to actually begin to pray about what God wants me to do and where he wants me to go. Thank you! God bless you in all that you do and bless those that you reach.
January 12th, 2010 at 7:53 amThank you so much for your devotional and the additional download on your blog regarding discerning direction. Our God is just so timely! I was terminated from my employment right before Thanksgiving and am struggling at my own crossroads as I’m so tempted to return to the same field I’ve been in for the past 20 years, however, I really believe that God may be calling me to something different. The question about the decision being God-sized was just so astounding when I read it. It’s entirely too easy to rely on what I’ve always done instead of pursuing some of the things that I feel God is leading me into at this point in my life…definitely not God-sized but more of a comfort zone. Again, thank you for sharing your insight and experiences today. God Bless you.
January 12th, 2010 at 7:56 amthe hardest thing is when you’re not sure if you’re at a crossroad or not! if you’re supposed to do things as you’ve always done them or if God is leading you to change things in your life. thank you for the insight you’ve offered and a way to discover if it’s you or if it’s God.
January 12th, 2010 at 8:03 amHello!
Wonderful devo today – and perfectly timed for my family and I! My husband has come to a major crossroads in his career and he has some very hefty decisions to make this week at work. We have talked and talked about it and prayed and prayed! We want to do the Lord’s will but we aren’t totally sure what that is. I’m also at a few crossroads of my own – where I’m thinking about picking up a part-time job and a few other things. Your devo was so comforting to me this morning
Thank you SO much for sharing!
I hope you have a marvelous day!
Blessings to you,
January 12th, 2010 at 8:04 amKate
Thank you for the devotion. I believe that I am at a crossroads since I recently moved to a new city. I’m not quite sure what to do with myself. This might be what I need to figure that out.
E
January 12th, 2010 at 8:09 amThank your for the devo. My husband and I are at a crossroads, and we are trying to discern Gods will for us in a financial matter. Please pray for direction in this for us.
Thanks,
January 12th, 2010 at 8:13 amCindy
Thank you for the Encouragement today and the download. I am unsure if I am actually standing at a crossroad, or if so it hasn’t been revealed to me yet. But I do feel that I shortly will be there. Thank you for the guidance and I will pray for you as well!
January 12th, 2010 at 8:13 amThank you so much for posting this! I am at a spirtual, financial, and emotional crossroads in my life right now and I would covet your prayers! Thanks for being obedient and sharing with us!
January 12th, 2010 at 8:23 amThank you for your encouragement. I hope that I can remember this the next time I have a big decision to make. Thanks again. Jennifer
January 12th, 2010 at 8:36 amThanks for all that you do. Any help I can get to help understand my walk with Jesus is always welcome. I’m searching and looking for a closer walk with God. Doors are always opening. He will always find a way.
January 12th, 2010 at 8:38 amI am at a crossroad! Not sure which direction is calling me. I know that He is calling my husband into ministry and it is an exciting time but I have reservations. This is a big commitment!!
Please pray that God will send confirmation that this is the direction He wants us to pursue!
Thanks again as your are always an encouragement!
Kristie
January 12th, 2010 at 8:45 amThis is truly VERY helpful to me right now! I’ve been pondering where God is leading me (and my family) and how it does or does not fit with ‘our plans’ for the future. Really want to follow HIS plan for us, but can’t figure out what it is yet. Thanks for the insight and questions to lead us in the right direction!
January 12th, 2010 at 8:50 amI guess I would say that we are all at a crossroad at some time in our lives. We may not even realize it, but we are constantly in a decision making mode-some small, some not so small. I’ve always been a control freak, it has taken me a long time to realize and appreciate that the control isn’t mine at all, it’s truly in God’s hands! I’ve hit many a crossroads on the whole control issue. I’m facing a different crossroad now, something that has plagued me the last few months. I truly appreciate the Discerning Direction document and look forward to giving it prayerful consideration today! Thank you again, I thoroughly enjoy your blog and your honest outlook at yourself, your family and your life.
Susan
January 12th, 2010 at 8:55 amI am at work but every morning I read and print out Encouragement for Today. As my faith strengtens I know that God is leading me to something new. I have been at a crossroad for sometime regarding my life. I feel like Im not doing enough for God and that he wants more but what is the answer. Thanks for the devotion.
Yvonne
January 12th, 2010 at 8:56 amWhat a beautiful and inspirational post!
Thank you for the print out and the chance to win an autographed copy of MAKING IT REAL: WHOSE FAITH IS IT ANYWAY?
The replies have touched my heart and I am adding these lovely people to my prayers.
I am at a crossroads with bringing a person to Christ who shows some interest but won’t act on it.
Blessings, Nancy J Locke
January 12th, 2010 at 8:59 amGood morning,
I am surely at a crossroads. I’m finishing up my Master’s degree in April and getting married in May. I’m trying to discern God’s will for my future career and life. My fiance will be working out of Syracuse for a year, and Syracuse is desolate as far as jobs in my job field is concerned. Do I go there or go where employment is? I know the answer, but I am struggling with trusting God because I just don’t see anything there.
Thank you for the devotion and blog. It is really confirming what God is telling me. Thanks!
January 12th, 2010 at 9:22 amI should add I have taken this person to church for over a year and have prayed and prayed. I can’t figure out what the hold up is and don’t know how to get through.
Blessings, Nancy J Locke
January 12th, 2010 at 9:22 amI’m continually amazed at how God puts people, words, thoughts in my path at the times I need to hear His words through others – and this is one of those times! Thank you for your obedience in speaking God’s words – they definitely do not fall on deaf ears!
My husband and I are at a crossroads – job offer for him and I just can’t seem to move – which is so frustrating for me – it makes me (and him) feel like I’m not supporting him in this opportunity. Long story short, I’m asking God to help me face my fears and make the way clear for me. I’m a cautious person – and my comfort zone is definitely being tested! I know that God will be with me and can use me wherever we are. I may just need to let go of whatever it is, take a risk, and trust God blindly.
I would appreciate prayers for clarity and that my heart will feel at peace if we are to go…wherever that may be!
Thank you!!
Jane
January 12th, 2010 at 9:30 amBoy did this come at a great time for me! I recently got thought breast cancer surgery and reconstruction a year of surgeries, no chemo or radiation Praise God for that. Through out this year I have kept a blog encouraging others to get through this. I also have Multiple Sclerosis and rheumatoid arthritis and I am only 40 and I just happen to be an oncology nurse. I have really felt in the last 6 months my faith just dwindle and just go into a dry time. My oldest daughter is going off to college this year and I just feel like I am not sure which way my life should be going. I feel as if I am neglecting my walk to focus on the time I have with my daughter… so many things running through my head. What I think the Lord is wanting me to do is talk to women going through trials as I have with MS, breast cancer, RA ect. Many folks have told me I should write but I think I would like to speak! I attached my blog incase anyone else is going through trials and would like to read. I really need to just take a leap! Thank you for your words of wisdom praying for direction and wisdom! Kindly, Debbie Ross
January 12th, 2010 at 9:46 amBoy did this come at a great time for me! I recently got thought breast cancer surgery and reconstruction a year of surgeries, no chemo or radiation Praise God for that. Through out this year I have kept a blog encouraging others to get through this. I also have Multiple Sclerosis and rheumatoid arthritis and I am only 40 and I just happen to be an oncology nurse. I have really felt in the last 6 months my faith just dwindle and just go into a dry time. My oldest daughter is going off to college this year and I just feel like I am not sure which way my life should be going. I feel as if I am neglecting my walk to focus on the time I have with my daughter… so many things running through my head. What I think the Lord is wanting me to do is talk to women going through trials as I have with MS, breast cancer, RA ect. Many folks have told me I should write but I think I would like to speak! I attached my blog incase anyone else is going through trials and would like to read. I really need to just take a leap! Thank you for your words of wisdom praying for direction and wisdom! Kindly, Debbie Ross
January 12th, 2010 at 9:48 amGreat insight and questions! Thanks for sharing – this will definitely give me some direction while I try to find my way (and God’s will for me).
January 12th, 2010 at 9:54 amHey Suz,
January 12th, 2010 at 9:59 amOnce again you’ve listened to the Lord and helped me at a crossroads! Thanks so much for being obedient to the leading of the Holy Spirit! Love you! May God richly bless you today!!
I am at a crossroad. I’ve had to give up some things to God so that He can begin to work with me. I’m still not sure of the direction that He wants for me, but your devotion is very encouraging. I would appreciate your prayers for my family and marriage as we continue to seek God through this. This is definitely God-sized and He will be the only way through.
Thank you for your words and your devo.
January 12th, 2010 at 10:03 amThank you for the download. I plan on passing it on to my 14 yr old daughter who is really struggling with identity. She wants love and acceptance, but she is pursuing those in the wrong avenues. Please pray for her & for me as I try to guide her.
January 12th, 2010 at 10:06 amSuzie,
January 12th, 2010 at 10:18 amThank you for your devo and prayers for me at this time. I feel like I have been cruising in circles and coming to this same crossroad over and over again. Yet, I keep cruising on. That is the easy thing to do. Just put it in drive and keep going. I know that I need to make some changes but the junk piled up around me has been mounting and I feel as if I don’t know where to start.
Also, pray for my husband and I as we sit at a crossroad concerning his job.
Blessings,
Pam
I think I have been sitting in the middle of an intersection for quite a while now. I say intersection, because by now, I’m not even sure which road I came on. I returned to college last year, something I believe God was telling me to do. After one year of intense, accelerated courses, with a few breaks, a December full of accidents and deaths, and “homework” from my counselor that I can’t seem to figure out, I am exhausted. Oh my and then my friend calls desperately needing a shoulder to cry on and I pray, pray, pray. I believe God speaks through me and I pour him out, but between that and everything else in my life, that I’ve listed above and not even mentioned, I’m so glued to the middle of the intersection. Glued because I’m empty, confused, and so exhausted. Thanks for your devotion and thanks for praying.
January 12th, 2010 at 10:20 amSuzie,
January 12th, 2010 at 10:21 amThank you for both devotionals – good stuff that will resonate in my spirit for a long while. My crossroads is a trust issue. Knowing what steps of faith God is asking of me is one thing, but choosing NOT to run them through my fear filter is another. Yep, it’s a trust issue. Thank you for praying.
Thank you for this morning’s devotional. I read at Proverbs 31 and then came here. I too, feel like God is telling me there is more. I am currently a stay-at-home Mom and I homeschool my two children. I used to work in banking. My husband’s work has declined this year. I keep wondering if I should go back to work and what that would mean for my family. Or if I should use this time at home to prepare for a different job in the future. It is difficult to know what to do. I am trying to listen for His voice, but still not sure if He is speaking to me. Please pray!
Thanks!
January 12th, 2010 at 10:23 amThank you for the devo. My crossroads today is making a decision that will effect my family financially and time wise….also prayers needed for raising daughters in this world of doubt, greed, and “meanness”. Thank you for praying for me.
K
January 12th, 2010 at 10:25 amPlease pray for me. My crossroad is very serious. My husband was physically abusive for many years, due to alcohol. When I finally left him he was saved and I went back. I saw God in action. I saw a completely changed man for many years. Due to circumstances way beyond his or my control we have been part time raising a grandson (who my husband worships) and had family living with us on and off and many pressures have been on us. We stopped going to church when Grandson was little. I have went back years ago but my husband has slipped back into his old habits and they are becoming more frequent. I can’t live in that fear again. I don’t know what to do. For 30 years I have not received any good words from this man, yet I have tried sooo hard to please him. I have been reading P31 devo’s for a long time and I thank God for you girls often. I pray and Pray for God to show me what to do. I have only been told the bad things about myself for so long and feel like I am not worthy to be loved by anyone. My husband makes me feel like I disgust him in both my appearance and my, well, just everything about me. I have isolated myself from friends and family because it’s just too much trouble to deal with his accusations and fear of old habits. I know God has something for me to do. I have been asking Him and praying for His Word to speak to me. I’m just so confused. I’m sorry, I have just written a book!! Just need prayer.
January 12th, 2010 at 10:28 amNot sure just praying that our Marriage is just needing work and my husband does not even see it love him just not sure he cares he has a addiction and I pray about it often just do not want it to affect our kids in a bad way.
January 12th, 2010 at 10:31 amLord, As I pray for each of these women, may they feel that you are listening for You are. May we make the hard choices in spite of feelings. May we search out Your word and if it goes against Your word, turn to you and wait.
I thank you for the honesty of these women (men, teens). Sometimes we just don’t know what to do, Father. But You have a plan. We’ll trust You. We’ll follow You. We’ll obey. But there are things that we cannot do on our own, so we place this in Your hands today. Take our lives. Take our dreams. Take our hopes, for Your ways and thoughts and dreams are so much higher than ours.
Amen
Ladies, I’m privately praying for each of you throughout this day. Thanks for sharing your lives with me. What a privilege.
Suz
January 12th, 2010 at 10:33 amThank you for the download and of course, the devotion is such a timely reminder from God, just when I need it. His timing is always perfect. My husband is a pastor and when we came to our church 3 1/2 years ago I was “expected” to have a ministry. At the time no one was doing anything with the women’s ministry so I took that over. Having worked in the business world for 20+ years, I am more comfortable around men (egos are easier to deal with than emotions and hormones). I also do not feel I can confide in anyone but my husband (he is my best friend). Suffice it to say I have been discouraged with the lack of participation in past planned activities. But now I feel that God has been leading me to lead another Bible study. I am however, dragging my feet. I have been praying for direction and am leaning toward Lysa Terkeust’s new book and study. Please pray that God would lead me in the right direction with this. Thank you.
January 12th, 2010 at 10:38 amSuzanne,
January 12th, 2010 at 10:40 amI, too, have been at a crossroads and am still there. I venture across the intersection and realize it’s the wrong turn; go back to the intersection and re-evaluate. It’s tough, wanting to please God yet also please my spouse. I’ve come to realize that it’s the same as the Scripture reference of pleasing God versus pleasing man, yet then I wonder how I can be the best testimony.
I have much more to say, but that’s it for now.
Thank you for the download, I will use it, very timely.
January 12th, 2010 at 10:45 amThis is just what I needed. Today is my last day to register for a class at a community college. I keep telling myself I need to do this to change my life, but then I wonder if it is God’s will, why is it so hard? Then I went to your blog, and what else is on there? The story of Richard your husband going to school. God always speaks to me through Proverbs 31. Thank you!
January 12th, 2010 at 10:55 amThe timing couldn’t be more perfect. I definitely feel I’m at a crossroads. Trying to discern what God wants for me and not let my desires cloud my vision. He’s been speaking to me about fear and how I let it hinder me.
January 12th, 2010 at 10:56 amThank you for sharing!
Suzanne I received the devotion today from Proverbs 31 Ministry and want to say thanks. I have currently been embarking on a new stage in my life. I recently said goodbye to the classroom and became a stay-home mom. I have been using this time to get my priorities straighten out. Lately, I have this hunger deep within me. A foggy vision of what I could be…I still can’t make it out, but I want it. However, I am often discouraged by my inabilities. So, I have been praying, “More of You, Lord and less of me. Fill me with Your Spirit.” Thanks again.
January 12th, 2010 at 10:57 amThank you for the download and for sharing your story of being at a crossroads. My biggest issue is knowing if what I am doing is what God wants for me – I pray, but don’t necessarily feel He’s answered…My crossroads is pursuing a new “job”. I am currently employed as a paralegal – good job, flexible, but still have to put in a set # of hours, also have handicapped son, and a 6 yr old, and 81 yr old mother living w/ us – so my plate is overflowing. I have been working at getting a health coach independent consult business going for a year – its very lucrative, and once I have client base alot less time spent and bonus of helping others get healthy – so I think this is the better choice – but don’t know and I’ll have to really push myself to do both jobs until I get the health coach job going, but being in office all day is also really limiting my networking ability, yet can’t quit that job yet… very frustrating… Any prayers will be most welcome and any suggestions too!
Thanks for all you do!! Janet
January 12th, 2010 at 10:58 amSuzi
January 12th, 2010 at 11:08 amI appreciate the devotional. It complements the current Women of Faith Bible Study our little group in Horse Prairie is just beginning. It’s about new beginnings. I’m encourage by the scripture of Saul. We are never to set, involved, whatever term you need in our current life situation that we can’t change, that God can’t keep molding us into the daughter He desires us to be. I/m not sure that my crossroad will take me in a dramatically different direction, but it make take me on a path closer to God. Thanks for the encouragement and thank you for your prayers
Bev McDougal
Suzie – thank you for your devotional – my whole family is at a crossroads right now, my daddy died in September, and we are still working out all the details of his estate. Two of my sisters are not speaking to each other, and I pray that they will resolve the situation soon…it is too painful for ALL of us. continue to pray for our family. Blessings to you and your family!
January 12th, 2010 at 11:14 amDori Cox
This is so very timely. I am at a juncture in my life where I don’t know which way to turn. I am an at-home mom and my children are almost all grown. Two have recently moved out…and one soon to be. It seems like a time where I am surveying where I am at…to be honest…it’s scary. My husband and I have felt God leading us out of a church we have been a part of for decades. I feel like Abraham being called out to a country that I don’t know anything about. I have no idea what I am supposed to be aiming at…just stepping out and asking God to lead me. I have not felt his nearness for a while nor felt as though I have “heard” His voice…He may be speaking in ways I cannot recognize… On top of all the “normal” changes, I recently lost a dear dear friend…she is now home with the LORD…but I miss her. Her passing has also brought to light that I need to know what God is saying…I want to stand before Him and not be ashamed. I want to have my end days even more fruitful than my past….with ABUNDANT fruit, that the Father would be glorified.
I keep asking: What do You want of me, LORD? (but it’s hard to hear an answer). Thank you for your prayers and your article…I printed it off to re-read it and remind myself to not give up…
January 12th, 2010 at 11:21 amThank you for the download. I am in such a crossroad that I’m lost I’ve been unemployeed since last March and I am sruggling in my relatinshp with our Lord lately. I can’t figure out or hear if He is answering any of my question, prayers etc. I feel lost and scared. i had a small panic attack yesterday morning over bills. I used to be able to handle this. I know it’s a temperary setback but I’m struggling to work through it.
January 12th, 2010 at 11:27 amThank you for your devotion. We also have been at a crossroad for the last almost two years. We are still waiting for God to lead us in the right direction. I am doing Lysa’s book, How to be More than a Good Bible Study Girl – a great devotional which includes a verse that hits it right on the head….Isaiah 43:18-19…look it up and read it – it will give you hope again. I know it did for us because I am very tired of the “situation” we are in. However, God is still in control and I believe it.
January 12th, 2010 at 11:35 amThis couldn’t have come at a better time! I lost my job back in July and still can’t find work. I’m really struggling with being a single mom trying to “do it all” and not feeling like I’m worthy of God’s grace right now. 2009 was a hard year on our family and I just need direction in my life as well as raising my kids in this sinful world we live in. Jr. High was never like it is now and it amazes me how much more peer pressure they have at such a young age! Our church that we had grown to love was dissolved this past year as well and now we are struggling to find a new church home.
Thank you for your encouragement and I would really appreciate your prayers!
January 12th, 2010 at 11:40 amSuzie,
January 12th, 2010 at 11:43 amThanks for your devotional. We made a major move from one state (with my husband and teenage daughter) to another last year and I feel like most of the time I spent just trying to get settled down. I did some things to keep myself busy, but I knew that is not really what I needed to focus on long term. Your questions are very focusing and helpful as I think about my crossroads and where to go next. I think I am being called to become involved in a new ministry. I am getting ready to look for work and realizing how hard a process it is especially if I want to find the opportunity that God has out there for me. So my choices are to do nothing by hiding and let things go along comfortably as they have or spend time really discerning what God wants me to do. I know that this will pull me out of my comfort zone even further, much as this whole past year has been and it scares me. I find myself loosing confidence and tired, knowing in my head what to do next, but struggling to get my heart on board with the searching, listening, and action part that God is asking of me. Your devo is time timely. Thank-you
Anne
Hi. I want to thank you for your words. I started listening to KLOVE radio when my husband found the station while he is incarcerated. He is awaiting a trial on charges that he molested my daughter. There are however just as many possibilities that my daughter made the whole thing up because of her boyfriend and some pictures of her on his phone. I have recently lost my home to foreclosure becuase of my husbands incarceration. I now life with my 3 kids in a very small apartmetn that doesn’t have enough room for a table to eat at. we have to eat int eh living room. I work as a temp and am trying to find permanent full time employment. I don’t where to turn or what direction to take anymore and i just pray that the Lord in his wisdom helps to guide me.
January 12th, 2010 at 11:43 amI think that for many of us, the download & devotional might act as a roadsign helping us figure out where we are going. It seems so inadequate to just say thanks because I needed these words so much this morning.
Last night I read that God doesn’t comfort us so we can be comfortable but to make us comforters. It comes out loud and clear that you have been in crossroad situations just like each one of us drawn here. Knowing that you made it through is a huge encouragement.
January 12th, 2010 at 11:44 amThis devotion hit me right where I am. Unlike most of these comments are about jobs mine is about my marriage of 25 years. I was married at 15 and stuggled the entire time. He is a huge heart but is possessing and controling therefore putting limits of time,friends(just 3 yrs ago i decided i would have),and most importantly my Father. Not to make a long story, I am struggling with my decision to divorce. I read and study everything I can find,I guess to be sure I’m making the right decision as in #1. Thank you for your prayer and support through this crossroad.
January 12th, 2010 at 11:51 amThanks so much for this encouraging devotion and the download. I think we are at a crossroads in our lives every day. Are we going to let God control our day and submit to his plans and purposes for that day or are we going to operate in our flesh? God has been teaching me so much this year and turning my life what seems Upside Down – but really Right Side Up! I am defintitly at a crossroads in my life and would appreciate your prayers that I don’t miss God on this one and I choose HIS way!
January 12th, 2010 at 11:55 amYour devotion is a step by step real-life application for one of my new favorite memory verses from Jeremiah 6:16: “Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it, and you will find rest for your souls.” Thank you so much for breaking it down and making it easier to apply it to my life!
January 12th, 2010 at 11:57 amI loved today’s devotion…thank you. I’ve printed the devotion on discerning direction & I can’t wait to sit down & study it. I have been at several crossroads & sometimes I can hear where God wants me to go & things work out. Other times I go where I think he wants me to & it doesn’t so I wonder…did I hear Him correctly. Two years ago I had one of those crossroads. I opened a second location for my retail business & it never sustained itself. In 9 days I’ll be closing that store. I’m looking forward to what He has planned for me & to concentrate on my one store. I was just praying this morning for discernment & wisdom then I read your devotion. Thank you for the words of encouragement.
January 12th, 2010 at 11:59 amThank you so much for your honesty and transparency in your devotional. It seems as if when the wrong direction is taken at a crossroads, it just loops around and brings you right back to the same crossroads. I am so thankful that our Lord is forgiving and loves unconditionally. I pray that I may become more like him each day.
January 12th, 2010 at 12:01 pmI feel that we have daily crossroads on a smaller scale. Today my prayer for myself is that I choose Him.
Thank you so much for the devo and download. I’m excited about working through it later this week. Funny thing is I was reading the same scriptures yesterday in Acts studying about Paul’s life and missed this part! It’s such a thrill to me to see how God uses scripture differently with everyone. Thus my crossroads-I’m writing a Bible Study and am figuring out the whole publishing process. God has generously provided some funding to self-publish it. I thought this would be thrilling, but I’m a wreck! I know God has a plan and I want to fully trust Him-not the voices of fear, rejection, pride, etc, etc. Thanks for the prayers.
January 12th, 2010 at 12:04 pmWhile reading the comments posted I realized once again what a wonderful God we have, he always leads us where we need to go. My husband and I are facing several crossroads right now one dealing with his job and staying where we are and one dealing with picking up and moving our family 2,000 miles from my family and the only state I’ve ever lived in. I felt that we were so alone in trying to make some sense out of all the issues facing us. We’ve prayed and prayed for God to give us a direction. Then I read today’s message and for some reason I decided to read the comments. Now I know God was showing me that we are not alone.
I still don’t know which direction God wants us to take, but I know he will lead us just as he lead me here today. He is in control. I have a renewed faith!
Thanks for the wonderful message Suz, and to all those that took the time today to post comments.
Debbie
January 12th, 2010 at 12:13 pmThank you for being willing to pray for me. I have been at my crossroad for years now. I no longer know what to do or how to pray. Thanks.
January 12th, 2010 at 12:19 pmThank you for your P31 devotion and the download. I am at a crossroads in many different areas and I need to make some choices. I only want to move in the direction that God has for me but I need to seek Him and listen for His voice. Thank you for the practical steps and encouragement to get started!
January 12th, 2010 at 12:27 pmYour devotional hit home today. Thank you for your ministry and the willingness to pour your heart out before the Lord. God is always faithful and on time! Thank you for the gentle nudge.
January 12th, 2010 at 12:36 pmThank you for sharing your story and the additional resources. I will use it to help me make a decision in what I am facing today. Thank you for praying for each one of us. May God continue to bless you and your family.
January 12th, 2010 at 12:41 pmThank you for your devotion and your prayers. I read through the download and the part about destiny is what speaks to me. Over the past year I’ve been trying to come to terms with my destiny (or God’s destiny for me, versus what I thought mine would be). I’m still struggling to come to terms with it. It was not what I planned many years ago, but as I look back, I can see God has been preparing me for this all along. My challenge now is to put an end to my personal pity party, accept what God has given and depend on him to see me through this. Thank you again.
January 12th, 2010 at 12:45 pmYes, I too am at a crossroad. God is opening up so many doors for me. I can only stand in awe. In His blessing, I need to be so very careful not to run on ahead (I know me). Thank you for sharing this today. God’s blessing upon you.
January 12th, 2010 at 12:47 pmThanks so much for your devotion and most of all your willingness to pray for me. I am at a crossroad where I have been many times before. Several years ago, the Lord put an obstacle in my way that I have since used as a crutch. The obstacle came at a time when I had made a start down a career path and it made me realize that that wasn’t the time. The Lord showed me his way. In hindsight I can see how the Lord was working. Now, I feel the Lord pushing me on to go to school and develop my career. Everyday it seems that he is clearing the path. Every excuse I have come up with, he has taken away. Still I find myself saying”what if I start again and _____ happens?” Please pray for me that I can I see the Lord’s will and persevere. Thanks.
January 12th, 2010 at 12:48 pmThank you, Suzie, for such a wonderful devotion – and the downloaded list on discerning direction! Please pray for our family regarding a crossroads in where to go – or stay – regarding our church body. Opportunities to serve in both, – which is the best, where does God want us? Hard to tell. Prominently figuring in the decision is what’s best for our special-needs daughter (both congregations do like her!), and our older daughter (age 22), who we are praying for a return to the Lord for.
Love, Andrea
January 12th, 2010 at 12:48 pmSuzie,
January 12th, 2010 at 12:49 pmYou have no idea how badly I have needed this advice lately. I’ve been at such an enormous crossroads…I keep to myself a lot lately. Even if someone showed up at my door to help me I probably open it. I’ve been battling harder than ever right now. This girl is in tears at this moment! Thank You…Thank God…and Thank God for putting you in my life!
I meant I probably wouldn’t open the door.
January 12th, 2010 at 12:50 pmI just found this web site today thru Encouragement for Today. I printed 2 devotions for my friend and myself. I was saved years ago but I am at a real crossroads now. My eldest son is in Federal Prison and my younger son is headed to State Prison. I may be getting evicted from my apt due to the younger son’s antics. He was not supposed to be living with me but I could not get him out of my apt. He just turned himself into the local jail on Friday and I’m already loving the peace and quiet.
January 12th, 2010 at 12:54 pmI am also trying to help with my 11 yr old Grandson, his son.
I have no money and the younger son messed up my car. I currently have no transportation to get to work and I’m a Substitute Teacher. I need lots of encouragement and if I get evicted and seriously thinking about just loading up a U-Haul and moving back to my hometown in Indiana. I left Indiana at age 24 and it would be a great burden to pick up and move at my age of 57.
Please pray for me. I’d like to stay in my apt and I can get my car fixed in about one month and get back on my feet.
Thanks for this encouragement for Christian women.
This is so timely. I’m unemployed since April 2009, but stay busy with my church Gracepoint (formerly 11th Street Baptist) volunteering, studying, praying, filling out applications. Don’t understand why I can’t beat out those 20 somethings with the belly piercings. This the 4th time in my life that I’ve been reorganized, downsized, and position is eliminated. I’ve also had to file bankruptcy for the second time. I have nothing again. No car, no credit, renting an apartment. All I have left is my faith that God has something special for me. And I just have to wait on Him. Thanks for the timely devotion. Shannon (Wager) Waggnor, Michelle’s older sister.
January 12th, 2010 at 12:58 pmSuzie,
Great and powerful post for me today. What a continual blessing from the Lord when he keeps sending me confirmations of His love and drawing me deeper. I have subscribed to Proverbs 31 for years now and your post is so ordained of God. I joined a Bible Study this past year, and we have been studying the book of John. God has brought me to a crossroads in my faith…Will I put Him on the throne of my life and quit bowing, worshipping other false gods-idols (people, places, or things in my life). Through the Bible Study and so many God-orchestrated moments: tidbits of info sent by email, written devotional or magazine article, people, glimpses of Him even through good tv programming, He showed me I needed to make a choice with the information He has laid out before me–no more messing around, all-out, totally committed to His will for me, not mine. I have a fresher appreciation for the invitational song we sing at our church, “I can never be the same again.” We must make a choice for Him when He reveals sin in our lives, or we are still making a choice by not choosing, or not choosing Him…a wrong choice. I chose Him.
January 12th, 2010 at 1:22 pmSuzie,
Thank you so much for this post. I admire you and your “sisters” at P31 Ministries so much! I’ve received “Encouragement For Today” for several years now, and it continually speaks into my life.
I would love prayer! Soon I will no longer be needed as a nanny with my current family. So I plan to teach piano full time in my home. I have several students already and have been teaching for about 2 years. I believe this is what God has called me to do as I am continually inspired and encouraged by my students – I just love each one of them! Send me more, Lord!
I am seeking wisdom and direction as I attempt to grow my business. One thing I struggle with the most is time management. Another equally challenging is procrastination and motivation.
Thank you so much for praying and for your encouragement. Blessings!
January 12th, 2010 at 1:33 pmThanks for writing today. I am glad that I have P31 devotions to read each day. I also am glad that God is always there to give wisdom and direction each day. So many decisions throughout life, yet God guides. What a wonderful God we serve! Thanks for offering your prayers for me and the other women who have left comments today. Blessings on you and your ministry as well!
January 12th, 2010 at 1:58 pmI don’t know if it’s a crossroads but I feel like a dog chasing his tail! Always going but never getting anywhere. Have you been there? How did you know where God wanted you to go? He’s moved our family back to our hometown so I know HE has plans for us but I wish it were more clear for me as to what I am to do. Just rambling thoughts. Hoping your download will help me find some direction besides a circle!! hehe God Bless, Karen
January 12th, 2010 at 2:01 pmI so much want God’s will in my life. I want that more than I want to have children (infertility x 15 years- leaving it to Him), more than I want my undiagnosed mentally ill husband to get treatment, even more than I don’t want to have a colonoscopy (since dad got diagnosed with colon cancer, I need to do it soon). I would appreciate prayers for direction, for clarity, and for patience to await His will.
January 12th, 2010 at 2:08 pmGod bless you all, I’m praying for you!
Jennifer
Hi Suzie,
January 12th, 2010 at 2:16 pmYour words touched me today and caused me to ask, “Am I at a crossroads too?” I know I’ve been dissatisfied with my job since changes occurred six months ago or so, and have felt for an even longer time that I’m not delivering all that I could. Today I feel that my talents are being squandered and although I know that God has His purpose in everything, I wonder if I belong here anymore. My passion is to participate more in church outreach programs and to be more present for my teenage children who are struggling greatly right now, but we do depend on my paycheck as well. I pray for God’s guidance and wisdom, but fear I do not have ‘ears to hear’ because my heart is troubled. Thank you for your insights today and for your offer to pray for me. It means a great deal to me. God bless you. Deborah
Suzie,
January 12th, 2010 at 2:21 pmI recently lost my job that I dearly loved..I was a Hospice Nurse. It is the craziest thing bc I felt like I was put there for a reason 2yrs ago, and now I feel like I was wrongfully let go. I was told it wasnt bc I was not doing my job, it was bc it wasnt working out. I was floored. I am sooo sad and hurt by this. I know I am at a CROSSROAD so to speak. But despite my prayers I still dont know what I am supposed to do or where to go from here… I can visualize myself sitting in the middle of the crossroads in despair. I have however turned more to him now than ever. I am enjoying just being a mommy to 3 wonderful kids and a wife to an amazing Godly husband in the WAITING…… JUST BEING STILL!! hmmmm..
God bless u and I hope u have a great rest of the week!!
Prayerfully In Christ,
Brandy
Reading through the comments posted by the others makes my heart ache for the number of needs. I praise God that He is all-knowing, all-powerful. Without Him, there is no hope.
January 12th, 2010 at 2:31 pmI have been feeling like I am at a crossroads – in one sense feeling that the Lord is calling me to do a certain thing, which serves Him but does not bring in much in the way of finances; yet my husband’s income was reduced, my oldest is in college and is already maxed out on loans, and we have two younger children with healh care needs that we do not have insurance to cover. So…do I pursue work that will bring in cash b/c that is what is needed (though in the current market here, not sure that is even possible) or do I just do what I THINK He is leading me to do even though it sounds foolish to everyone else?
Thank you for this devotional and download. I have felt God’s calling for my life. Just recently I have felt him pulling me into a direction I don’t feel equipped to serve. I am following him by faith. I look forward to studying this devotional in more depth.
Mary
January 12th, 2010 at 2:37 pmSuzie,
Thanks so much for being a Daughter after God’s own heart!
I am thankful that I read the devo for today. This is exactly my conversation with the Lord, daily, and more than daily.
You asked,”What do you do whn there is not real change?” Well, I think it’s best to wait upon the Lord. To be quiet and seek Him. To be quiet so that He can speak to us. Well, that’s exactly what I am doing right now!
Thanks for the Bible Study. I plan to do it right away! What a Blessing you new book would be!
Blessings to you and yours this new year!
January 12th, 2010 at 2:59 pmJeanie
Thank you for your words of wisdom. It is never an easy thing to undertake when you are at a crossroad in your life. Which way do you turn? Do you fully trust and lean on the Lord, knowing that HE has your best interest at heart… or do you take the reigns and try to do it yourself? I know from past experience to just give it up, and surrender it all to the Lord. As I write now, me and my family (3 kids and husband) are at a crossroad. He just got laid off last thursday. Immediately thoughts rush through my head, do we sell the house, do we move in with my parents, do we stop tithing? …. NO, NO and NO. The Lord WILL PROVIDE… Jehova-Jira … my provider. HE WILL WALK WITH US THROUGH THIS TOUGH TIME… why? Because he has seen us through this already and knows where we end up.
January 12th, 2010 at 3:13 pmI only have a couple more minutes before the two little ones wake from naptime and we go to pick up their older brother… so I will now download your devotional so that I can read on further.
Thanks again,
Walk on in Christ Jesus,
christy
Hi Suz,
Thank you so much for the devo on Proverbs 31 and the download on your blog, and for your prayers…
I’m at a crossroads again (like I’ve often been in the past few years). This time it’s mainly about changing my job and moving back to my country (I’m in voluntary economical exile:)) after half a year. Is it inline with God’s will? What is my motivation? Part of it is hostility of some people here, part of it is homesickness (not my first longer stay abroad!), seriously adverse weather condidtions, inability to pursue my important artistic hobby… I could go on! But what is God’s will for me now? I know He’s there wherever I am, but where does He want me to be? Should I try to get a job back home and come back? Is it fear and lack of faith that drives me or is it God nudging me because He wants me to move back? And my relationships with people… Or, more importantly with that special person whom I haven’t met yet and the clock is ticking very loudly…
I appreciate your prayer, Suz, and I also pray for you and all the people who left comments sharing about their crossroads.
God bless you:)
January 12th, 2010 at 3:27 pmNets
Thank you so very much for a most beautifully inspiring devotional message. Crossroads describes my situation to the point at this time. I want so very much to changee things, but at the same time feel so trapped and helpless in the midst of it all. I thank God for the privilege to come to Him in prayer and for the true gift of your encouraging words on this day. There are no accidents, I was driven to your site for a reason today. I appreciate the download opportunity also and I look forward to studying along with you. May God continue to bless, keep, and favor you and yours is my prayer!
January 12th, 2010 at 3:46 pmI want to thank you for the devo–it is EXACTLY what I needed to hear today. I am trying to make a job decision. I am in a current position that has very very good hours for my family. However I really and truly do not like my job and stare at the clock all day. If I change positions I will need to find a babysitter and will not be at home as much, but I will be doing something I love. I feel like I am choosing between what’s best for my family and what will make me happy (which could be best for my family???) It is so hard and I am really having difficulty. I feel like staring at the clock all day equals me just waiting for life to be over. Can you just pray clear answers and peace for me with me. I have been and think I know what needs to happen but I still just need peace about it. I bought your book The Women I am Becoming and just love it. It is helping me as I make a decision–I have been in tears at least once a chapter!! Thank you for helping me hear God’s Word. Women like you who do that for women like me who don’t always have the right words are such a huge blessing.
January 12th, 2010 at 6:02 pmThank you for the inspiring words. I turned 50 last year and took the leap to return to university. Yesterday I withdrew from school and it was the hardest thing I have done in a long while. I have to focus on the challenges at work right now; as without a job I cannot continue my schooling. Thursday I will re-apply to begin again in September, as this will be following my heart and my passion. I am downloading your questions re:crossroads and eager to work through them. Blessings and prayers for you to continue your message and sharing.
January 12th, 2010 at 6:20 pmSuzie,
January 12th, 2010 at 7:41 pmthank you so much for this today! It has touched me deeply. I have been in the crossroads about a trip I am scheduled to take in August to Africa. The financial aspects are overwheliming, as well as the fear of going. But, God has never failed me before, and I know He won’t start now! Thanks for the prayers!
Hi Suzie! Thank you so much for this Devo and for the download. Crossroads, well… I think this is my first official one, maybe I’ve been in other crossroads but never got to the point of really asking myself like Francesca Battistelli’s song says: “It’s your life, what you gonna do?” So, one year and a half ago, I was a senior in High School and “University”, “Future”, “Profession” topics came along and I thought I had everything figure out but as a matter of fact I didn’t and still don’t know anything. I was living in my parents country Colombia for a while and I finished my High School years there, but when it came to “being a professional” and “pursuing dreams & happiness” I “realiazed” that there was no place on Earth to live and be all I wanted to be but here in the United States. Well I was born in this country, but I lived in Colombia for the last 6 years and now I’ve been living here almost 7 months and it has been quite a journey, you know, learning to grow up, accepting that life is not a fairy tale or fantasy, and the hardest thing for me has been that it’s not where I want to be, but where GOD wants me to be, because when I moved back here, I was not sure of what I was doing, I didn’t feel that I was pleasing God at all, there was no peace, but even though I was aware of that, I got on the plane and here I am. I wanted to come back so badly, but I guess my decisions were based on my emotions and fear towards my future and my destiny. Now I really don’t know what’s next, I don’t know if I should go back to Colombia or stay here in the US, but all I know is that I’m learning to trust God with everything that I have and I know my life, my everyday, is in His hands. Thank you Suzie. Bye! <3
January 12th, 2010 at 7:44 pmThis was a great devotional; one that really spoke to my heart. I’m a stay-at-home mom and I feel that God is using this time to really speak to me….to help grow my faith and show me things that I never would have seen had I been at work. (This isn’t about working moms vs. stay-at-home moms; I’m just saying what works for me right now.) I’ve felt that I’ve been at a crossroads for a while now and I truly DON’T know what God wants me to do…..where He’s leading me. I’m reading His word everyday and journaling. I feel kinda lost but then I remember that I can trust Him COMPLETELY to take me in the direction of His will.
-Amy
January 12th, 2010 at 8:10 pmI first want to say thank you for your devotion today. It really seems like God is hitting me over the head with this one between Sunday’s SS lesson, Proverbs 31 devotions, and friends. I am a SAHM. I first quit working 12 years ago to stay home and raise my children. 6 years ago I was able to start working on my dream of a college degree in education when my youngest child began kindergarten. Through the grace of God I was able to schedule my classes such that I could still be home when my children were home, not having to sacrifice the benefits of being a SAHM. I maintained a 4.0 GPA while attending a full time student schedule for 3 years. Then we found out that I was pregnant with my 4th child. I again became a full time SAHM. I love my children, and I love being a SAHM, but I have been very bitter at giving up what I felt like was finally getting part of “me” back. I had somehow shifted my thoughts from God’s gift of being able to raise my children, to feeling burdened by it. That it was somehow less than what I could or should do. The verse from the P31 devotion on the 7th really helped “…for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances” Philippians 4:11b If Paul could find contentment in his circumstances, then I can too. God works ALL things for good for those who love the lord (and I truly do) and are called according to His purpose. So now I need to pray to determine His purpose.
January 12th, 2010 at 8:31 pmAs I read this I am reminded of talking to God about the fork in the road ahead. He gave me these words: I will strengthen you. I will uphold you in my righteous right hand. It meant everything to know I didn’t travel alone. Of course in my head, I already knew that. The Lord gave me a personal moment with that scripture. God is good. Another verse this reminds me of is in Jer. Stand at the crossroads and ask…. I am still crossing. B
January 12th, 2010 at 11:36 pmThis devotional was forwarded to me today by a co-worker of mine and after reading your devo and download “Discerning Direction”, WOW, this hit home for me! I have been praying and asking God in the circumstances I’m in right now, if He could reveal to me if I should remain or move on. I believe I’m at that crossroad NOW! I need direction, I need answers. I do feel holy discontent lately! Part of me says to endure, stick it out. But truly, after reading today’s devo, I need to regroup, allow God to remain in charge. In the last month, I allowed this circumstance to take up my time and attention. It has distracted & hindered me from focusing on God’s Word, His guidance and my daily personal time with Him that I had prior to this event. Please pray for me as I have for myself and this circumstance. Our God is such an Awesome God and all Glory and Honor will forever remain in His Name! I thank God for using you for His purpose, you are a blessing. Thanks again! God Bless. Cynthia
January 13th, 2010 at 12:29 amHi Suzie, I just posted a comment a few minutes ago but forgot to attach my email. You’ll see in “mail”. =) Cynthia
January 13th, 2010 at 12:34 amDear Suzie,
I’ve been sitting here all night thinking about ‘crossroads’. I kept getting stuck on that word. Not that it represents anything particularly good or bad; moreover, a decision…a trust…a change. I tend to think of a crossroads as more of a ’season’. Can’t think of the verse off hand (it’s after midnight here in Alaska) but it speaks of our lives having seasons (season to laugh, season to cry, season to etc…).
God gives us seasons and they are not much different than the Seasons we experience all year long. Some people have 4 seasons a year, some 3, some feel as if they only have 2 and others don’t think things EVER change.
I think it’s the same in our walk with God. We come to a time when we may have to let go, re-plant, and then grow where we are planted. There will always be “something better on the other side”, Satan will be more than willing to point it out to you (and me). But stand strong on the Solid Rock of God and he will let you know when it’s time.
God’s time is perfect! Let’s follow His clock!
Hope that made some sense…I’m almost falling asleep as I write but needed to send those words before I hit the hay. Goodnight everyone and God’s blessings and guidance to each and everyone one.
~~Love, Joy, and Laughter
January 13th, 2010 at 5:27 am~~Theresa A.
Suzy, I had to cry today when I read Proverbs31 and then your blog. I have been at a crossroad for 2 years. I am a mother of three girls (15, 13, 9 years of age). While they were young my husband and I “juggled” and I was able to work out of the house 2 days a week and be at home the rest of the time. As they grew and all went to school, I worked from 8:00 to 3:30 as the home health physical therapist; it was great because I could work and be at home with the kids after school and keep the “home fires” burning. Approximately 2 years ago, at my husband’s urging (at times seemed insistence) we forged out 2 start a business of our own, which relies on me heavily to run it. To say the least, I am scared to death. I have questioned if this is truely Gods will or am I only attempting to please my husband? I am a woman who is content in most situations, enjoys the path of least resistance. This new career has been challenging to say the least. I am gone from home more, stressed and am struggling with confidence in my abilities to “keep it all together” and be a hands on mom and supporting wife. The business has the ability to be a wonderful ministry for the elderly in our community and for working mothers. I just pray daily that this decision has been based on Gods will for my life…the conflict is with time gone from home and a desire to be ever present for my children. Please pray that God reveals is presence and will for this circumstance. Stacy
January 13th, 2010 at 10:33 amThank you for the beautiful devotion today. It came at such a perfect time. A crossroad is exactly where my husband (&family) are at our church. I guess I have thought in the past that church should be a totally safe place from the stresses in our lives. but I have to remember, we are all human, even at church. Recently we’ve struggled, because the beliefs that we believe are of scripture, are being changed at the church we belong to. We are both very involved there, and there are many who look to us for direction. Our crossroads is do we leave and go to a different church? or do we stay with the people that we love, even though our doctrinal beliefs differ. I have been praying for the leadership and I know that God is in control. I believe that He still can change the hearts if that is what His will is. I so appreciate the Proverbs 31 devotions, and always look forward to the study. God Bless you for your work in Him.
January 13th, 2010 at 12:39 pmI have been at this crossroad many times, and I’ve learned to believe and trust God. If I wait on Him, He will eventually give me an answer. It’s the waiting for Him that is the hard part for me. I have been tested and tried many times, yet I know the only right answer is direction from Him. Love your blog.
January 14th, 2010 at 4:58 pmGood morning – I know in this time of my life that I am at a crossroad…GOD spoke it to me one day while I stood waiting for the bus to take me back to where my son and I are temporarily staying. I looked up at the sky and noticed the clouds were going in a criss-cross pattern, it was right then that I heard GOD say, ‘you’re at a crossroad. A little while longer then you and Codie can go home.’ Prior to that, several months prior, I heard GOD tell me, ‘get ready.’ My heart is so flooded with emotions of joy and nervousness right now as I type this. Joy because I know that GOD is in control and working out the greatest miracle of my life, and nervousness because I want to be ready. It has been so hard during this journey with GOD, and I’m glad HE doesn’t show us or tell us what’s ahead (lol, we would never go if HE did tell us), and I am TIRED. Not the frustrated kind of tired, just tired. I feel drained and worn out in my spirit, but I know that as HIS Word says in Isaiah 40:31 But those who wait on the LORD shall renew their strength; They shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint.
I know everything will be great because GOD has never failed me, nor will HE ever fail me and I also know that even though I am in a hard place and at my crossroad, I know that as long as I stay trusting GOD and staying in HIS Word and in HIS presence through prayer, praise and worship, that HE will direct my path (steps). Psalm 119:105 Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path.
January 15th, 2010 at 8:53 amP.S. Thank you for you prayers and I printed Discerning Direction and will be reading that tonight during my quiet time with GOD.
January 15th, 2010 at 8:57 amI love these questions! they are super helpful
Years ago I used to carry around a little laminated card that I had created after going through Experiencing God. It had some similar questions to this and I used to use it to help me discern whether something I was struggling with and trying to make a decision on was from God or not… I had completely forgotten about that card until I read this post… now I want to go home and look it up 
Thank you so much!
February 4th, 2010 at 5:14 pm