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September 16, 2008 | articles, momlogic

Remember my post from yesterday? I need to cut back somewhere, because I’m blogging on Momlogic now too, and it’s a serious opportunity to blog with interviews with great authors and people over topics that thinking women just might read. : )

So, my personal blog will go to three days a week starting today. On the off days I’ll simply add a link to my momlogic blogs. I hope you’ll not only tune in to those interviews, but join me in the Christian Momlogic community!

Current blogs to check out:

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Building a book, a career, a ministry

September 15, 2008 | writing

Our little neighborhood had only three houses when we moved in. Another house was built a couple of months ago. A new home is going up behind us.

I have discovered that I love seeing a house come up from scratch. I’m a professed lover of HGTV, watching Flip that House, First Time Buyers, and House Hunters whenever I can. Richard gets a laugh out of it. “Who knew?” he says.

We walk in the evening and I love to check out the day’s progress. Did they finish out the trim on the roof? Did they frame in the rooms? “Oh, look! They’re going to put in a whirlpool tub instead of a plain one!”

But this building business has also put a crimp on my writing life. Maybe those aren’t the right words. The truth is that I’m watching a crew of two brothers build a home from the ground up, and I’m supposed to be building books from the ground up–and the housebuilders are winning the race. The tangible progress of their hard work, their tenacity, mock me from my home office window every day. (more…)

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Another great night

September 12, 2008 | T. Suzanne Eller, family

On Wednesday I met with 20 women and we talked about the wonderful and not-so-great moments of parenting. I asked them to consider their “good mom” list. You know, the things we said when we were kids, like, “I WILL NEVER do. . . . (fill in the blank)”.

There were some great answers. I will never yell. I will never hit my child. I will never make the standards do high that they are impossible. I will never humiliate my child.

The problem with those is that in the midst of real conflict with your child (meltdown at the candy aisle in WalMart or when a teen says “I hate you”), you can whip out your good mom list and it’s not very effective. You can stand and say all day long, “I won’t yell, I won’t yell, I won’t yell”, but what WILL you do? Because the problem is still there and it needs addressed.

So we broke in small groups and shared our good mom lists and then threw out the I WONT’S and brainstormed effective and practical things that we could do.

I love meeting with these moms and moms-to-be. They are funny, open, and fun to hang out with. I certainly don’t have all the answers, but I think friendship among women as we parent, love our families, work, and run after God makes us stronger.

I can’t wait until next Wednesday. . . when we will discuss “Making Your Kid’s Memories”.

Hey, I hope you’ll consider checking out my posts this week at Time Warner’s community (Momlogic) Christian Momlogic. This week we talked about:

Is There Really Sex After Kids?              Where Can a Mom Turn to for Support?

My Teenaged Son is Acting Out

 

 

 

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Teens, Parenting, and Overcoming

September 11, 2008 | media interviews

Join Suzie today as a guest on God Unplugged with Amy Hammond Hagburg at 12:00 p.m. to 12:30 p.m. You can listen online as Amy asks Suzie to discuss teen issues, parenting, and overcoming a painful past! Click on the microphone and it will take you to God Unplugged.

Listen to Amy Hagberg on internet talk radio

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Waiting Children

September 10, 2008 | community, mentoring

My daughter attended She Speaks with me in Charlotte, NC, this summer. She came into the room one night holding a picture up of a little girl from India.

“It’s my new Compassion child,” she said. “I’m a sponsor.” She held out the picture.

The little girl was different from the other pictures I had looked through that afternoon. I had wondered how people could choose among such beautiful children that pulled at your heart strings. This child looked angry. She stared at the camera, her eyes dark, her mouth a straight line.

“That’s why I chose her,” Melissa said. (more…)

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Want to listen to an interview?

September 9, 2008 | books, media interviews, mentoring

I loved talking with the ladies at WLGT Blog Radio, Sandra and Sarah. We talked about The Woman I Am Becoming, discussing things like twentysomethings and faith, twentysomethings and relationships, twentysomethings and community. For all you twentysomethings who will later read this post on Facebook, tune in and let me know what you think. I love hearing what you have to say. Always.

Go to WLGT and click on my interview (2nd from top)! Have a great listen and let me know what you think.

Order The Woman I Am Becoming: Embrace the Chase for Identity, Faith, and Destiny.

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Refreshing

September 8, 2008 | T. Suzanne Eller

Joy* and her boyfriend are new Christians. Joy is a former addict, a mom who lost her children, and who just got her baby girl back a few weeks ago. She’s in her twenties or early thirties, I’m not sure because it’s hard to tell. Life hasn’t been good, not for a long time.

Joy and I became friends one day in a small group. She didn’t have her little girl then. Others were raising her while Joy went through rehabilitation for her addiction. Her boyfriend was in the picture, but still on drugs. Joy became a Christian, drawn to our church because lots of other women from the rehab attended each week. (more…)

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Isn’t this exciting?

September 5, 2008 | T. Suzanne Eller

I’m excited, watching the political race unfold. I won’t use this blog as a political endorsement because I don’t think that’s appropriate, and frankly I still am undecided.

But isn’t it awesome that we have the opportunity to watch these candidates shake up history? We are in the front seat as racial and gender lines are broken for the first time in our country’s history. My son called me yesterday early, wanting to know my opinion of Palin’s speech the night before. (more…)

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What I’m up to. . .

September 4, 2008 | calendar, community, family, interviews

I’ve recovered nicely. The surgery couldn’t have gone better. I have five small stitches lining my upper lip, kind of like a small caterpillar.

Last night I got to hang out with 20 women in a new small group for moms. The win/win for me is that I knew about half of the women well, but made 10 new friends. I had an outline, handouts, you know, the usual, but the discussion took on its own life as women opened up, shared their doubts, encouragement, and honestly looked at hard parenting can be sometimes.

I love talking to the crowds, but wow I love sitting in the small settings among friends talking about things that women care about.

I couldn’t sleep last night because I was already thinking about next week’s topic: parenting styles - authoritive, permissive, and authoritarian. Fun stuff, right?

I am also having a blast at Momlogic as the host of the new community, Christian Momlogic. We are growing, and this week we talked about the challenges of parenting a young teen. Next week we are talking about “Is There Really Sex After Kids?” with author and parenting and marriage expert, Jill Savage.

Believe me, it was a fun and enlightening conversation and it should be a good week. I hope you’ll join us at Christian Momlogic!

Also, I’ll be a guest on WLGT LIVE Radio tonight. 8 p.m. EST.  Call in!

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Impact for Life Book Drive!

September 3, 2008 | books, community, faith, mentoring, ministries

 

UPDATE!

Three checks have arrived: $25, $21, $35 (THANKS!)

Mel, Director of Impact for Life is excited that the news of this amazing ministry to women in prison is being shared. My hopes are for a miracle - the five loaves and fish kind — will you join me? 

 

It’s rare that I step outside my comfort zone to ask anyone to help with a cause. It’s a hard thing for me to do.

But last February I traveled to Denver, CO to a conference. While I was there, I checked out a ministry in The Springs called Impact for Life. It’s a ministry to men and women in jail, but also to their families, especially their children.

Impact for Life believes that when an inmate is freed, that there must be a support system in place to help them, and their families, succeed. They start inside the prison, holding mini-conferences in prisons across the nation. They work with chaplains to create libraries and to provide books, audio materials, and support material to help them grow as a person, as a mom or dad, and in their faith. This is a complete volunteer nonprofit organization.

And it’s changing lives!  (more…)

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Suzie Eller

T. Suzanne Eller

Believing that God redeems our life stories, Suzanne teaches you how to give every chapter of your life to a relevant and life-changing Savior.

Books

The Woman I Am Becoming: Embracing the Chase for Identity, Faith, and Destiny

Making It Real:Whose Faith Is It Anyway?

The Mom I Want To Be: Rising Above Your Past to Give Your Kids a Great Future

Real Issues, Real Teens - What Every Parent Needs to Know

Real Teens, Real Stories, Real Life


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